Q: They don’t seem to make enough good kids’ movies that
don’t feature in-your-face dialog, terrifying characters, fast cuts, or just
over-the-top crazy stuff designed mainly for adult audiences (that I have to
spend half the movie explaining to my 5 year old). As a Mediatrician and film buff, can you
recommend a few of your favorites, either classic or contemporary?
--Frustrated by Films in
A: Dear Frustrated by Films,
In addition to being the Mediatrician and a film buff, I also have a 5 year old! Some of my kids' favorites are short films featuring Kipper, and classics I've introduced them to like Singing in the Rain, and The Music Man. But I think the important bit of guidance I can give you is not a list of my favorite movies but rather advice on how to find what may become your daughter's favorites!
The trick to choosing good movies for your child lies in
combining your knowledge of the movie with your understanding of your child:
What are her likes and dislikes? What scares her? What does she enjoy? One approach is to find a movie you loved when you were her
age and then watch it together. In addition to giving you an opportunity to
share something that was important to you, it can also help you remember how
children of her age see and process movies. For example, I remember seeing Snow White when I was 5 and being
terrified not by the witch but by the forest coming to life, and tree branches
tearing at Snow White as she runs. But I also remember the wonderful experience of
seeing The Incredible Journey, where 3 pets who were left behind find their way, through natural and man-made
obstacles, back to their people.
Such memories can remind you of the sorts of things that a
child might find frightening (which are not always the things you
might expect) and the sorts of things they might enjoy (which don’t have to be
masterpieces and don’t have to be new and flashy). The two things a 5 year old wants are
a good story and something to share with you. For ideas of classic movies that
can provide both, I recommend Ty Burr’s The
Best Old Movies for Families: A Guide to Watching Together.
I also suggest that whether or not you know the film you are about to share, pay
attention to your daughter’s reactions to it. That way, you can respond
immediately to her needs (whether for comfort, explanation, or a change of
activity) and learn more about what will work for her in the future.
>>See related question: My daughter was scared by a movie, what do I do?
>>When we posted this question on our
Facebook page, our fans listed these movies as their favorites at age 5:
- Apple Dumpling Gang
- Shirley Temple movies
- Sword and the Stone
- Old Yeller
- Swiss Family Robinson
- Thomas the Tank Engine
- Blues Clues
- Pete’s Dragon
- Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
- An American Tale
- The Muppets Take Manhattan
- Kipper
- Winnie the Pooh
- Sound of Music
- Mary Poppins
- 10,000 Leagues Under the Sea
- Bed Knobs and Broomsticks
- Peter Pan
- Follow that Bird
- Charlotte’s Web
- Herbie the Love Bug
Enjoy your media and use them wisely,
The Mediatrician
